The Velvet Knot Journal
Wedding planning,
demystified.
Honest guides on cost, timelines, traditions, and what really happens behind a well-planned Indian wedding.
Indian Wedding Guest Etiquette: What to Give, Wear, Say and Do
By Team Velvet Knot · Reviewed by senior planners · Updated for 2026 Give cash in an envelope, ending in 1, typically Rs 1,100 to Rs 2,100 for a colleague and Rs 5,100 upward for close friends or family. Wear colour, avoid white, black and bridal red. RSVP early, never bring an unannounced plus-one, remove […]
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Outstation Wedding Guests: Moving 200 People Without Losing Any of Them
By Team Velvet Knot · Reviewed by senior planners · Updated for 2026 Outstation guest planning is a movement operation, not a courtesy. Collect flight and train details at RSVP, build an arrivals manifest sorted by time, staff an airport desk, run fixed shuttle loops instead of on-demand cars, appoint one liaison per 25 to […]
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Wedding Hotel Room Blocks in India: How to Negotiate and Manage Them
By Team Velvet Knot · Reviewed by senior planners · Updated for 2026 A wedding room block is a set of hotel rooms held at an agreed rate. Allotment blocks release unbooked rooms at a cutoff date and carry no family liability. Guaranteed blocks lock you into paying for unsold rooms in exchange for better […]
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Bridesmaids and Groomsmen at an Indian Wedding: Roles, Etiquette and What They Actually Do
By Team Velvet Knot · Reviewed by senior planners · Updated for 2026 At an Indian wedding, bridesmaids and groomsmen are a work roster, not a processional. Traditional roles already existed: sisters, the bhabhi, baraat friends, joota chupai teams. Modern parties add coordination and photos. Keep it to four to eight per side, assign real […]
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The Wedding Welcome Dinner: Planning the Night Before Everything Starts
By Team Velvet Knot · Reviewed by senior planners · Updated for 2026 A wedding welcome dinner is the arrival-night function that feeds guests as they land and lets two families meet before the formal ceremonies. Plan it as a rolling three to four hour buffet, not a timed sit-down, invite outstation guests and immediate […]
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The Destination Wedding Guest Guide: What to Send Your Guests Before They Travel
By Team Velvet Knot · Reviewed by senior planners · Updated for 2026 A destination wedding guest guide is the information pack a host family sends before travel. It covers the function schedule with dress codes, airport transfers, the hotel room block, weather and packing, local practicalities, named liaison contacts and gifting guidance. Send it […]
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Save the Dates and RSVPs for an Indian Wedding: Getting a Real Headcount
By Team Velvet Knot · Reviewed by senior planners · Updated for 2026 In India an invitation signals relationship, not attendance, so families rarely reply. Split the ceremonial card from the data collection: send a save the date 6 to 10 months out, the formal invitation 6 to 8 weeks out, and a WhatsApp-linked RSVP […]
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Wedding Welcome Hampers in India: What to Put In Them and What Guests Actually Use
By Team Velvet Knot · Reviewed by senior planners · Updated for 2026 A wedding welcome hamper is placed in an outstation guest’s hotel room on arrival. Its real job is to make an unfamiliar city usable: printed itinerary, water, local SIM or wifi details, snacks, basic medicine. Indicative cost runs Rs 400 to Rs […]
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Indian Wedding Day Timeline: An Hour-by-Hour Run Sheet That Actually Holds
By Team Velvet Knot · Reviewed by senior planners · Updated for 2026 An Indian wedding day is built backwards from the muhurat, not forwards from breakfast. Fix the auspicious window first, then reverse-engineer every block from it: pheras, jaimala, baraat, getting ready, vendor load-in. Evening muhurat days and pre-dawn muhurtham days have opposite shapes. […]
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The Indian Wedding Guest List: How to Build It, and How to Cut It
By Team Velvet Knot · Reviewed by senior planners · Updated for 2026 Build an Indian wedding guest list by agreeing quotas first, then naming people. Split it three ways: bride side, groom side, couple. Tier every name A, B or C. Decide who is invited to which function. Expect 75 to 90 percent of […]
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